Showing posts with label Ian Fleming. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ian Fleming. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

The sensual is spiritual is sexual

You can find essential links between the spiritual plus the sensual along with the sexual.

I have pretty much constantly applied the sensual because the entrance towards the spiritual: for you will find strategies that the sensual along with the erotic experiences is often transcendent, just as spiritual experiences may be erotic.

I know this: the Tibetan Buddhist model for the awakened thoughts is - orgasm.

Ideally, the sexual is an expression in the sacred, it is an act of worship in the divine spark in my partner.

There are those around who stay unconvinced in the spiritual dimensions of sexual pleasure, who are in doubt that the heights of which I've spoken are basically probable. Certainly, most advocate a temperate, low-key “it feels very good bodily function” status for sex - I know and comprehend this viewpoint for the reason that significantly of my personal sexual expression has been a rational workout within the mechanics of arousal and orgasm - and but I have also experienced the magical, spiritual aspects of sex. Sex toys glass dildos have nice appearance just like an art in your bedroom. The first time meet this glass dildo you will just look it as a common or expensive gift on the shaves.

Now I have a lover who's my match, and collectively we experience the transcendent consciousness I also knowledge with my most intimate good friends. Collectively we'll traverse those peaks and valleys, and it'll happen since I Desire it. Thrusting vibrators may the most favorite sex toys for women. Lady will enjoy unlimited climax with the different vibration.

Why do I need it? Because I'm wired for it. For the reason that I am a sensual creature, like quite a few other individuals inside the globe, and you can find multiple points of access to spiritual transcendence, plus the path of your Sensualist also includes a Gate which opens upon that spiritual level… it can be just a far more pleasantly distracting, winding, and branching path than most who seek enlightenment would pick to walk.

Thursday, April 18, 2013

What Tends to make An excellent Lover?

Do sex suggestions make a man great in bed? Or are some men naturally fantastic, although other folks must study sex recommendations constantly? What is it that tends to make a guy outstanding?

Everyone desires to be like him, but who precisely is he? How does he Think & MOVE?

What An incredible Lover Is

Unfortunately, Wonderful Lovers (GL’s) do not wear nametags. This is for personal protection against droves of women who wish to camp on their beds. One can’t spot GL’s by eye inspection, and you may have been in the presence of one in the past, but never knew about it. Don’t be deceived with what you see. Don’t look for excellent bods and gorgeous pecs, for GL’s are rarely these.

In fact, let go of all your physical biases. GL’s can be short, fat, trimmed or thin. Physical attributes have little bearing on this regard.

It’s their sexual programming that makes them gold. They are Wonderful Lovers because of how they Consider, not because of how they look. Thoughts - the software of actions. We are moved by our thoughts, we move according to our thoughts.

How They Think & Move Differently Than Other Guys

How do they move? Fantastic Lovers are never in a hurry, they are living for the MOMENT. The past is gone, the future is none, the PRESENT is all there is.

He’s the gentlest of all. There’s silent confidence blanketing the man with no performance anxieties, no pressure to blow the mind of any woman and make her scream to the high heavens. He’s in no mission to impress anybody, which is a major turn-on by the way. He’s confident, but not arrogant. He doesn’t assume knowledge of everything, but is eager to learn. Penis pumps are the best toy for men to erect the penis quickly.

Others assert authority, power and domination, GL’s simply assume these.

Are they push-overs? Certainly not. They simply GET IT.

They Understand The Psychology Behind Sex

Though most males go for the raw hump, GL’s realize that emotions are the most powerful tools in their arsenal. It doesn’t matter if it’s in the context of an intimate relationship or a one-night stand, when a girl is on his bed, she bathes in EMOTIONS. GL’s make women F-E-E-L. Cock Ring help men create a harder and firmer erections that will last longer during the sex.

Technique-wise, GL’s are known for their legendary TRANSITIONS from the SENSUAL to the SEXUAL. They’re so smooth, women can’t draw the line between foreplay, play and afterplay. Everything flows and they don’t strain towards making things happen. A GL transitions a girl into every gut wrenching position, without her realizing it. They don’t flip and pounce.

Monday, April 8, 2013

Hetero Amity

What a painful factor it's to understand that I reside within a society that devalues friendship. Particularly hetero-sexual friendship.

Friendship is really a source of appreciate and acceptance and communion. And yet, ladies are encouraged to view other girls as mere competitors, and guys as possible providers and mates. And males, they may be encouraged to develop the same mindset. Their male good friends are buddies with whom they jokingly compete, and ladies are objects to be desired.

So it seems that friendships in between men and women, even within this post-sexual revolution era, are awkward and simply discouraged. This, despite the fact that friendships in between women and men present astounding rewards. Men can express to females the thoughts and feelings that they would in no way express to other men, the thoughts and feelings that society considers weak and unmanly, and have them validated. And females, being aware of economic independence and reproductive selection, can go to men with their thoughts and suggestions, not as beggars and dependents, not merely tolerated as objects of sexual gratification, but appreciated as intellectual equals. Sex Toys are a wonderful choice for people to enhance the relationship between them.

Today, when a man as well as a woman meet in friendship, it can be feasible for us to meet as folks, to touch the humanity in one another, to love the exchange involving different-yet-same that results in us getting from one another one thing that could not have come from inside us.

And however, conventional wisdom states that men and women cannot be good friends, that sex gets in the way. What a sad thing which is. In my experience, the sexual tension only gets inside the way if it goes unacknowledged.

I'm female, you are male, we're hetero. We could form a sexual union. Or not. But sex will not be the root of our affinity. Or is it?

Ah, the power of a query that doesn't call for an answer. It's enough merely for us to be aware, awake, open, perceptive, inquisitive. The answers, just like the questions, are available in their very own time.

1 day, I hope the answer towards the question “why can not women and men be mates?” will be moot.

Regardless, I’ll continue with my hetero amity.

Sunday, February 24, 2013

A year in reading

It seems that ‘inspired by’ is the term to use when one is shamelessly borrowing another’s good idea. With that in mind, this post is inspired by/pinched from Sean Lotman’s wonderful post of the same name. You are encouraged to take a look at the original as well as this weak derivative.Buy sex toys on sex sop.

An earlier post on ten minutes hate details my early designation as the family bookworm and the part that public libraries have played in creating my reading habits. There are times when a ‘to read’ list is put into use, but more often it is the joy of discovering something unintended that makes a trip to the library worthwhile. So it was around the time that borrowing took over from buying books that, realising that some gems would no doubt be forgotten along the way, I started making a note of titles and authors as I travelled.


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The writer, engrossed in a book, Singapore, Christmas 2010

Looking at my list, the first failure to note is that it doesn’t come close to Mr Lotman’s staggering 42 books. Shamefully, mine is barely half that. It is interesting that in the comments to the original post, the balance between reading and writing is mentioned and it is true that, for the first half of the year at least, writing took up almost every available moment of my free time. Then there was the temptation of reading long-form journalism on my phone instead of carrying physical books on commutes and journeys. Although some of the listed books were read on a Kindle app (being too lazy to buy yet another gadget) the majority of them were paper and ink and, however much technology adds to other areas of my life, I foresee that continuing.

Another notable trend is that, while reading will always be something done primarily for pleasure, there are words here that I took a more professional interest in. Mr Lotman talks about the joy of reading, saying that often, too many readers see it:

as a way to pass the time rather than an action worthwhile for its own sake.

Usually I would be in complete agreement, however other motivations for reading have intruded this year. My list contains a few books that were of interest for research purposes, or read in draft stage and edited, or – in perhaps the biggest leap of personal development – read in order to develop a hopefully interesting and stimulating literature curriculum. Teaching classes based on loved books, having hated everything school forced me to read in English class, was at times tough, although ultimately enjoyable. Still, it is rare for a book that you feel you ought to be reading to become as much of a favourite as one you are free to delight in.

This joy of discovery shows in the publication dates of many of these titles, few are contemporary, perhaps only a couple would have been marked ‘the book of the moment’ or reviewed by a Sunday newspaper. That is due to distance: picking up books via second-hand bookshops and swapping with fellow expats tends to rule out hardbacks and new releases. Many of my list were gifts or recommendations and there is something lovely about hearing ‘I think you will enjoy this book’ from a friend before finding that to be true.

Here then is my list of books read in 2012, in chronological order, with links to reviews I wrote along the way and some further thoughts following:

The Adventures of Sherlock Holmes, Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
Let’s Start Again, ABCTales short story compilation
Hana Walker’s Half-Life 2:46, Our Man in Abiko
Babylon Revisited, F. Scott Fitzgerald
Musings of a Monkey, Steven
Hunger, Knut Hamsun
The Great Gatsby, F. Scott Fitzgerald
Moonraker, Ian Fleming
Mourning Ruby, Helen Dunmore
The Mammy, Brendan O’Carroll
Bon Voyage, Mr President, Gabriel Garcia Marquez
A View from the Chuo Line, Donald Richie
The Maginot Line, Fiction Desk short story compilation
Care of Wooden Floors, Will Wiles

I managed 24 books, two for each month. Four were re-reads, six were ebooks, eight were purchased by me and the rest were passed on by friends.

Impossible to choose one favourite, but the books by Doris Lessing, Wu Ming and Knut Hamsun were particularly enjoyable, for wildly different reasons. With Lessing taking her ‘pursuit’ into a post-War London suburb, the Wu Ming viewing the American Revolution from an unconventional perspective and Hamsun’s anti-hero lurching around late 19th century Kristiania (Oslo), my love of stories set outside my own time is clearly demonstrated. Despite their differing subject matter, all three were lively, gripping tales, fascinating and relevant.

Finally, it is with a sense of guilt that I note that there are five downloaded but yet to be either started or finished books lurking on my Kindle app. This is something that I hope to address very shortly, as an extended holiday break in England with typically wintry weather offers little incentive to venture outdoors. With a little luck, 2013′s list will offer even more gems than this one.